My name is Jordan and I'm an alcoholic. As we all know, life can be a tumultuous journey, filled with unexpected twists and turns that shape our character and destiny. For me, this journey began in the bustling city of Minneapolis, MN, where family life took an early hit with the divorce of my parents when I was just 4 or 5 years old. The split propelled my mother, two siblings, and eventually my older brother, into a new life far away in a quaint town outside of Austin, TX, briefly leaving me to face a challenging chapter alongside my drug-addicted father.
The scars of neglect and abuse marked my early years, introducing me to the stark realities of addiction that no child should ever witness. It wasn't long before I sought refuge with my great-grandmother in the peaceful environment of Vancouver, Washington. Those five years of stability were a brief respite before the call of family brought me to Texas, where I was reunited with my mother, step-father and siblings during my middle school years.
Despite the turbulence of my upbringing, I was blessed with the gift of intellect which shone through. I excelled academically, standing out in both middle and high school. However, the allure of the party scene and its quick fixes for numbing pain proved too tempting for a soul already acquainted with suffering. Drugs and alcohol became my escape from the hurt locked away inside; a dependency that I now recognize was ignited with that very first experience.
High school introduced new challenges when a legitimate injury led to a prescription for opiate painkillers. This wasn't just relief from physical pain; it was an escape from all pain, and I began to pursue that absence of feeling with fervor. However, my achievements in academia continued, earning me a scholarship to a prestigious private university in Austin, TX. There, I embarked on the pre-med biology track, but the weight of a demanding curriculum coupled with the shackles of addiction quickly strained my resolve.
At this point in time, my personal life mirrored the chaos of my inner turmoil. I found myself repeatedly entangled in destructive, codependent relationships that revolved around substance abuse. When the cost and scarcity of prescription opiates spiraled out of control, I turned to china white, a deadly concoction of heroin and fentanyl. This transition marked a rapid decline, and the once-concealed addiction (or so I thought) became impossible to hide.
It was in the depths of despair that a moment of clarity pierced the darkness. I reached out to my mother, who immediately recognized the signs of heroin addiction. This pivotal phone call became my lifeline, leading to my first experience in a treatment center and an introduction to the transformative power of a 12-step program. Here, I learned the significance of confronting my internal struggles to overcome the external manifestation of addiction.
The path that led me to where I am now was not paved with ease. After my first treatment in 2014, I returned to the university with a renewed focus and determination to complete my education. Changing my major to Behavioral Neurosciences was a decision that aligned with my intrinsic desire to understand the complexities of human behavior, particularly as it pertains to addiction. My graduation in 2017 was a milestone that marked both personal and academic triumph.
During my studies, I began working in the treatment industry, finding a profound sense of fulfillment in helping others navigate their own journeys to sobriety. Life seemed to be on an upward trajectory, but the shadows of my past dependencies were never far behind.
The woman who entered my life during this period eventually brought with her the joy of my son, but also reignited my struggles with codependency and love addiction. The overwhelming desire to escape the emotional turmoil led me down a familiar, dark path of relapse.
This relapse was the beginning of a harrowing descent - a cycle of detoxes, treatment centers, mental hospitals, jails, and, ultimately, prison. Yet, it was within this abyss that I found the bedrock of my resolve. The stark realization that the cycle would only end in death if I didn't commit wholeheartedly to my recovery became my turning point. I refused to let my story end in tragedy.
My transformation required an unwavering dedication to my sobriety and the principles of the 12-step program. I immersed myself in the work, not just for my sake, but for the sake of my son and those who still suffered. I embraced honesty, integrity, and service, and found solace and clarity in a consistent meditation practice. These principles did not just help me rebuild my life; they became the cornerstone of a new existence.
Now, with over two years of sobriety, I stand as a testament to the possibility of change. As the Residential Director of a sober living community in Austin, TX, my experiences serve as a beacon of hope for others. I do not merely instruct; I lead by example, showing that recovery is not merely about abstaining from substances, but about living a life filled with purpose, connection, and serenity.
Every day, I am reminded of the gift of my second chance and the beauty of a life that once seemed unattainable. By the grace of God and the unwavering support of the recovery community, I've been given the chance to rewrite my narrative, one day at a time. And in doing so, I hope to inspire others that no matter how far one has fallen, the journey back to the light is always possible.